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		<title>By: Patty</title>
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		<dc:creator>Patty</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 05 Jun 2011 06:41:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hello my friend,i agree with your post. iam so happy with your idea . Thanks dude</description>
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		<title>By: e cigarette</title>
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		<dc:creator>e cigarette</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 05 Jun 2011 05:36:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I believe one of your adverts caused my browser to resize, you might want to put that on your blacklist.</description>
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		<title>By: tresor bracelet</title>
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		<dc:creator>tresor bracelet</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 05 Jun 2011 02:11:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks for another great article.Where else could anybody get that kind of info in such an ideal way of writing? I have a presentation next week, and I am on the look for such info</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks for another great article.Where else could anybody get that kind of info in such an ideal way of writing? I have a presentation next week, and I am on the look for such info</p>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 04 Jun 2011 23:59:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: 2186328</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 04 Jun 2011 23:59:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>2186328 beers on the wall.</description>
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		<title>By: jim</title>
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		<dc:creator>jim</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 15 May 2011 16:01:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Its funny how its always about how the man isnt good enough. How she isnt into him. How he isnt good enough. Its funny how the negative is always directed at the man. There is never a comment made about female rudeness or mistreatment. In fact some of these articles go so far as to avoid blaming women for anything. No matter what its always the mans fault. And society wants to know why men hate, why men hate women, why men commit suicide. Why men are the way that they are. Soicety is unforgiving of men. Yet expects men to fight its wars, build its cities and be motivated to hold society togther. Well, that is all ending. As women attack and degrade men, men no longer feel a need to do anything any more. I hate women for hating men.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Its funny how its always about how the man isnt good enough. How she isnt into him. How he isnt good enough. Its funny how the negative is always directed at the man. There is never a comment made about female rudeness or mistreatment. In fact some of these articles go so far as to avoid blaming women for anything. No matter what its always the mans fault. And society wants to know why men hate, why men hate women, why men commit suicide. Why men are the way that they are. Soicety is unforgiving of men. Yet expects men to fight its wars, build its cities and be motivated to hold society togther. Well, that is all ending. As women attack and degrade men, men no longer feel a need to do anything any more. I hate women for hating men.</p>
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		<title>By: slapper</title>
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		<dc:creator>slapper</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 11 Apr 2011 07:47:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Funny how the man is always refered to as a &#039;creep&#039;. No matter what, the woman is always placed in a position of authority and the man has to convince her his &#039;okay&#039;. usually by being any thing but himself. Men/boys are told to change everything about themselves to fit this very narrow model of acceptability for women .yet a woman can be any kind of way and its the man who has to change. It&#039;s pretty messed up and shows how low women are. Many men have deep emotional ills as a result of being enslaved in this way. Even sexism could be fuled by this kind of inequality when it comes to male, female communication. Women are valued more i nthis society. That message is clearly sent to males from a very young age. it fuels a hatred and resentment of women. That grows as a man ages. Women allow this and participate in this system of ongoing male degradation. There is no even playing field. Its all about the woman. And that is why dating, family and everything else in the west is falling apart. The degredation of men and boys owes a lot to why things are as they are. online dating is completely anti male. its just one big competition. he who has the most money and can put up the greatest front wins. how is it that a man receives 1 to 0 emails and women receive so many they can barely sort through them. Its all unblanced. And OK cupid and all of these other Scams are laughing all of the way to the bank. Ripping out countless men who join these &#039;sites&#039; only to receive a dose of self depreciation. And abuse from women. That all it is. There is no such thing as online dating for men. the percentage of men who actually find someone through this crap are far and few inbetween.  One day men will wake up and realize they have been duped big time!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Funny how the man is always refered to as a &#8216;creep&#8217;. No matter what, the woman is always placed in a position of authority and the man has to convince her his &#8216;okay&#8217;. usually by being any thing but himself. Men/boys are told to change everything about themselves to fit this very narrow model of acceptability for women .yet a woman can be any kind of way and its the man who has to change. It&#8217;s pretty messed up and shows how low women are. Many men have deep emotional ills as a result of being enslaved in this way. Even sexism could be fuled by this kind of inequality when it comes to male, female communication. Women are valued more i nthis society. That message is clearly sent to males from a very young age. it fuels a hatred and resentment of women. That grows as a man ages. Women allow this and participate in this system of ongoing male degradation. There is no even playing field. Its all about the woman. And that is why dating, family and everything else in the west is falling apart. The degredation of men and boys owes a lot to why things are as they are. online dating is completely anti male. its just one big competition. he who has the most money and can put up the greatest front wins. how is it that a man receives 1 to 0 emails and women receive so many they can barely sort through them. Its all unblanced. And OK cupid and all of these other Scams are laughing all of the way to the bank. Ripping out countless men who join these &#8216;sites&#8217; only to receive a dose of self depreciation. And abuse from women. That all it is. There is no such thing as online dating for men. the percentage of men who actually find someone through this crap are far and few inbetween.  One day men will wake up and realize they have been duped big time!</p>
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		<title>By: Dawn</title>
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		<dc:creator>Dawn</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 26 Apr 2010 14:31:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I actually had a guy contact me and in his e-mail he said &quot;I notice you have two cats. May I ask how you handle living with that awful smell?&quot;. So I ignored him. Then I get a message from him saying he complained to yahoo personals that he wasn&#039;t receiving any responses and thought there might be a problem and that yahoo told him to contact a couple of women he was &quot;really interested in&quot; and let them know if he didn&#039;t get responses.

I THINK the second message was supposed to make me feel flattered that he liked me or something but the first message was so offensive to me that I originally had to play the &quot;if you can&#039;t say anything nice don&#039;t say anything at all&quot; rule. Unfortunately the second message made me feel like a response was required simply to get him to realize why he wasn&#039;t getting the desired response.

Ever since I told him his first message to me was offensive in that it implied that I don&#039;t know how to keep my home clean since I have pets I haven&#039;t heard from him. Probably too much to hope he got the message and eventually found what he was looking for by going about it the right way.

Seriously who says that to a stranger especially someone you supposedly want to date?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I actually had a guy contact me and in his e-mail he said &#8220;I notice you have two cats. May I ask how you handle living with that awful smell?&#8221;. So I ignored him. Then I get a message from him saying he complained to yahoo personals that he wasn&#8217;t receiving any responses and thought there might be a problem and that yahoo told him to contact a couple of women he was &#8220;really interested in&#8221; and let them know if he didn&#8217;t get responses.</p>
<p>I THINK the second message was supposed to make me feel flattered that he liked me or something but the first message was so offensive to me that I originally had to play the &#8220;if you can&#8217;t say anything nice don&#8217;t say anything at all&#8221; rule. Unfortunately the second message made me feel like a response was required simply to get him to realize why he wasn&#8217;t getting the desired response.</p>
<p>Ever since I told him his first message to me was offensive in that it implied that I don&#8217;t know how to keep my home clean since I have pets I haven&#8217;t heard from him. Probably too much to hope he got the message and eventually found what he was looking for by going about it the right way.</p>
<p>Seriously who says that to a stranger especially someone you supposedly want to date?</p>
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		<title>By: Murph</title>
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		<dc:creator>Murph</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 26 Apr 2010 01:45:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks for the insight. I did eventually get the hint on the ones who have been off the site for over three weeks. Who would have though Hi or Hey would not cut it in the subject line...


I understand the need to ward off the pyscho&#039;s, however it would be nice to get a no thanks. I agree it is common courtesy, if they respond again then simply block from contact. 

BTW, go Hawkeyes....</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks for the insight. I did eventually get the hint on the ones who have been off the site for over three weeks. Who would have though Hi or Hey would not cut it in the subject line&#8230;</p>
<p>I understand the need to ward off the pyscho&#8217;s, however it would be nice to get a no thanks. I agree it is common courtesy, if they respond again then simply block from contact. </p>
<p>BTW, go Hawkeyes&#8230;.</p>
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		<title>By: becks</title>
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		<dc:creator>becks</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 25 Apr 2010 08:41:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;m a woman and I USED to be polite reply that I was not interested or hit the button that says the same thing .. but mostly they write you back .. asking why?

So then you have this guy writing you all_the_time. :(

Writing a girl again and again will not make her want to date that guy. She will think he&#039;s a nut. I have even broken this rule and written back to guys like this. In the end - they were nut cases and I wish I stayed with my first instinct. :(

If a guy writes me back (after I either ignore him or indicate I am not interested) 2 times .. I hit the button to block him completely.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m a woman and I USED to be polite reply that I was not interested or hit the button that says the same thing .. but mostly they write you back .. asking why?</p>
<p>So then you have this guy writing you all_the_time. :(</p>
<p>Writing a girl again and again will not make her want to date that guy. She will think he&#8217;s a nut. I have even broken this rule and written back to guys like this. In the end &#8211; they were nut cases and I wish I stayed with my first instinct. :(</p>
<p>If a guy writes me back (after I either ignore him or indicate I am not interested) 2 times .. I hit the button to block him completely.</p>
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